Friendships

One evening a little while ago, I went for a walk to help clear my mind.  While walking I was struck by a thought I had about friendships and time.  In my life I have made some friendships with people I knew I would only be around for a brief period of time.  And it is hard each time that period of proximity ends.  Sometimes even tears are shed.  But it has taught me a few things:

1.  If they are a Christian, then it is not really goodbye forever.  You will see them again in Heaven.

2.  (and this goes for any friendship/relationship you have)  Treasure every moment you have with someone.  You never know when/if you will see them again this side of Heaven.

3.  Never avoid making a friend just because you know you will only see them face to face for a short time, or because of the difficulties that come with distance.  From my own experience, it is worth it.

4.  As little kids we all did this a lot.  We would play with someone at the park for an hour, be great friends by the end, and then never see each other again.  If children can do that why can't we?  It should be even easier for us with all the technology we have that allows us to stay in contact with people.

5.  That friend, even if you never speak to them again, will have some sort of impact on your life.  If you choose to avoid making a friend because of lack of proximity, you will miss out on that impact, and that may be the only person God has to impact you that way.

Well, there are some of the reasons I have for making friends no matter how long I will be around them.  What are some of your reasons?  Do you avoid making friends because of a time frame?  Why?